21 Ways to Spice Up Your Marriage


1.Take a Class Together or Cook something special

2.Create Intimate Moments

3.Have a Sleepover Just the two of you

4.Plan your dream vacation  It’s proven planning a vacation brings more joy than the actual.

5.Have a fight with water guns, water balloons, Nerf  guns, pillows

6.Exercise together eg take a yoga or Zumba class.

  1. Change one thing in your bedroom every so often (month, quarter, year)

8.Share a 20 Second Hug for your spouse and give them the 5 star treatment

9.Write a handwritten love letter for your spouse

10.Pray together

11.Make a fun dessert and lick it of each other

12.Take a shower together.

13.Give  each other a full body massage.  Start at the head or feet and slowly work your way inwards

14.Have sex at a different time of day.  

15.Read a sex educational book or blog and try one thing you learn from it.

16.Make love somewhere other than your bedroom. Sometimes a small change can make a big difference.

17.Flirt with each other.  Wink, whisper into his/her ear. Play footsie under the table, blow a kiss in public. Tickle each other.

18.Pack a picnic lunch or dinner with bitesize foods

19.Send your spouse coded sexy texts. Something that  even if kids or someone else saw wouldn’t know what you were talking about.

20.Speak the language of love in a foreign language

1.Ma chérie — French for “My Darling”, Muy caliente! — Spanish for “sizzling hot”, Ciao bella — Italian for “Hello beautiful!”

21.Have a Fashion Show. Go to a discount store like Ross, TJ Maxx or lingerie store like Victoria’s Secret or something online   Buy your spouse lingerie, sleepwear, boxer shorts, whatever  you find kinky. Turn the lights low, find some sexy  music and do a fashion show  for each other in the privacy of your own home. Wear something that makes you feel confident and sexy. Have fun.

Photo by Prayoga D. Widyanto 2 available under a Creative Commons Attribution-license
Photo by Prayoga D. Widyanto 2 available under a Creative Commons Attribution-license


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